Lesson Plan: Eidgah (The Morning of Eid and The Fair)
Subject: English Literature - Prose
Class: 7th Grade
Duration: 45 minutes
Topic: "Eidgah" by Premchand (Sections I-III)
1. Learning Objectives
By the end of this lesson, the teacher aims to help students:
- Understand the themes of selflessness, sacrifice, and love in family relationships
- Analyze the contrast between childish desires and mature compassion
- Recognize how poverty affects choices but doesn't diminish human dignity
- Develop reading comprehension through a culturally rich narrative about Eid celebrations
- Build vocabulary related to festivals, poverty, compassion, and Indian village life
- Appreciate the value of thinking about others' needs before one's own desires
- Identify the irony that the poorest child makes the wisest choice
- Understand the difference between temporary pleasure and lasting usefulness
2. Learning Outcomes
Students will be able to:
- Think of others' needs before their own wants
- Make wise choices with limited resources
- Value practical gifts over momentary pleasures
- Show compassion to family members, especially elders
- Understand sacrifice as an expression of love
- Appreciate what they have instead of envying others
- Recognize true wealth (love, compassion) vs. material wealth (money, toys)
- Practice empathy by considering others' hardships
3. Introduction (5 minutes)
Engaging Questions:
- "Have you ever saved money for something special? What did you buy?"
- "If you had only ₹30 at a fair with toys, games, and sweets, what would you buy?"
- "Have you ever bought a gift for your parents or grandparents? How did they react?"
- "What's more important: buying something you want, or buying something that helps someone you love?"
- "Do you know what Eid is? How do people celebrate it?"
- "Imagine your grandmother burns her hands every day while cooking. You have a little money. Would you buy yourself sweets or buy something to help her?"
Hook Activity: Show pictures of colorful fairs with toys, sweets, and rides. Ask: "Imagine you're at this fair with only ₹30 in your pocket. Your friends are buying toys and eating sweets. But you notice something useful your grandmother desperately needs. What would you choose? Today we'll read about a four-year-old boy named Hamid who faced exactly this choice—and made a decision that will touch your heart."
4. Reading and Understanding (8 minutes)
New Vocabulary with Meanings:
| Word/Phrase | Meaning | Example from Text |
|---|---|---|
| Eid | Islamic festival marking end of Ramadan (month of fasting) | The morning of Eid |
| Eidgah | Open space or mosque where Eid prayers are performed | Everyone prepares to go to the Eidgah |
| Festive | Celebrating; joyful; related to a festival | Festive fields |
| Treasure | Collection of valuable things; precious possessions | Count their treasure of coins |
| Mahmood | One of Hamid's friends | Mahmood has twelve coins |
| Mohsin | Another of Hamid's friends | Mohsin has fifteen |
| Tattered | Torn and shabby; worn out | A tattered cap |
| Ameena | Hamid's grandmother who raised him after parents died | Living with his grandmother, Ameena |
| Paisa/Paisas | Small unit of Indian currency (100 paisas = 1 rupee) | Only three paisas |
| Tonga | Horse-drawn carriage used for transportation | People in tongas |
| Vendors | People who sell goods | Toy and sweet vendors |
| Merry-go-round | Rotating amusement ride with seats | Enjoy the merry-go-round |
| Water-carrier | Person who delivers water; also a toy representing this profession | Mohsin buys a water-carrier |
| Noorey | Another friend of Hamid | Noorey buys a lawyer |
| Hungrily | With intense desire; longingly | Looks hungrily |
| Smash | Break into pieces violently | Would smash if dropped |
| Gulab-jamun | Sweet Indian dessert made of milk solids in sugar syrup | Sweets like gulab-jamuns |
| Halva | Sweet confection made from flour, sugar, and ghee | And halva |
| Left out | Excluded; not participating | Hamid is left out |
| Hardware shop | Store selling tools and household metal items | Notices a hardware shop |
| Tongs | Tool with two arms for gripping hot objects | Does not have a pair of tongs |
| Chappatis | Unleavened Indian flatbread | When she cooks chappatis |
| Iron pan | Metal cooking pan (gets very hot) | Burns her hands on the iron pan |
| Bargain | Negotiate to get a better price | Hamid bargains him down |
| Mock | Make fun of; ridicule | Mohsin and Mahmood mock him |
| Tiger among toys | The best/strongest of all toys | Calling it a "tiger among toys" |
| Selflessness | Concern for others rather than oneself | Moved by his selflessness |
| Sacks of silver | Great wealth; very valuable | As precious as "sacks of silver" |
Additional Cultural Terms:
| Term | Explanation |
|---|---|
| Ramadan | Islamic holy month of fasting from dawn to sunset |
| Festival of Eid | Celebration at end of Ramadan with prayers, feasts, gifts |
| Allah | Arabic word for God in Islam |
| Fair/Mela | Festival marketplace with vendors, rides, entertainment |
5. Mind Map
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6. Consolidation and Presentation (8 minutes)
Summary of the Lesson:
"Eidgah" by Premchand is one of the most beloved and touching stories in Indian literature. Set during the Islamic festival of Eid, it tells the story of Hamid, a four-year-old orphan who lives with his grandmother in poverty. Despite having only three paisas to spend at the Eid fair, Hamid makes a choice that reveals extraordinary wisdom, selflessness, and love—teaching us that true wealth lies not in what we have, but in how much we care for others.
Section I: The Morning of Eid—Hope Amid Poverty
The Setting:
The story opens with a beautiful description of Eid morning: "wonderful and beautiful" with "green trees, festive fields, and a bright sun." The entire village buzzes with excitement as people prepare to go to the Eidgah (the place where Eid prayers are performed).
The Boys and Their Treasure:
The boys are most excited of all. They count and recount their coins:
- Mahmood has twelve paisas
- Mohsin has fifteen paisas
- Other boys have similar amounts
They eagerly plan how they'll spend their "treasure"—on toys, sweets, rubber balls, and rides at the fair.
Hamid—The Poorest but Happiest:
Then we meet Hamid, a four-year-old boy who stands apart:
- He's thin and poorly dressed
- He has no shoes
- His cap is tattered (torn and worn)
- He has only three paisas—much less than his friends
But remarkably, Hamid is the happiest of them all.
Hamid's Background—A Child's Understanding of Loss:
Hamid's parents have both died, and he now lives with his grandmother, Ameena.
To protect the child from the painful truth, Ameena has told him comforting lies:
- "Your father went away to earn money" (he actually died)
- "Your mother went to Allah to get you gifts" (she actually died)
Hamid, in his innocence, believes these stories. He's filled with hope that his father will return with money and his mother will bring gifts from Allah.
This is heartbreaking irony: The reader knows the truth, but Hamid doesn't. His happiness is built on a child's beautiful but false hope.
Granny Ameena's Worry:
While Hamid is excited, his grandmother is deeply worried:
- She has no food for the festival
- She has no money to give Hamid
- She worries about him going to the fair alone
- She feels the pain of their poverty more acutely on this festive day
But Hamid reassures her cheerfully, and sets off with the other boys.
The Contrast Established:
From the beginning, Premchand establishes the central contrast:
- Other boys: Have money, shoes, good clothes
- Hamid: Has almost nothing materially
- But Hamid has hope, love, and (we'll discover) wisdom
Section II: At the Eidgah and the Fair—Temptation and Restraint
The Journey and the Prayer:
The roads fill with people—in tongas (horse carriages), motorcars, and on foot—all heading to the Eidgah.
After the prayers, the men embrace each other in the spirit of Eid brotherhood.
Then the children descend upon the fair like a swarm—heading straight for the toy vendors and sweet sellers.
The Merry-Go-Round:
Hamid's friends enjoy the merry-go-round (a rotating ride).
But Hamid refuses to spend even one paisa on it.
His reasoning: He has only three paisas. One paisa is a third of his entire wealth. For just a few minutes of fun? No. He can't afford such extravagance.
This shows Hamid's practical wisdom even at age four. While other boys spend freely, Hamid understands the value of money and the need to use it wisely.
The Toys:
Next, the boys buy clay toys, each costing two paisas:
- Mahmood buys a policeman figure
- Mohsin buys a water-carrier figure
- Noorey buys a lawyer figure
The boys are thrilled with their purchases.
Hamid's Response:
Hamid looks at the toys "hungrily"—he wants them desperately. They're colorful, attractive, appealing to a child.
But Hamid knows:
- These toys cost two paisas—two-thirds of his money
- They're made of clay—fragile
- "They would smash if dropped"
- They provide only temporary entertainment
So he resists the temptation.
The Sweets:
After buying toys, the boys enjoy sweets:
- Gulab-jamuns (sweet syrup-soaked balls)
- Halva (sweet confection)
They eat with delight.
But "Hamid is left out."
He can't afford sweets. He watches his friends enjoy them but doesn't complain.
The Accumulating Pain:
Imagine the scene from Hamid's perspective:
- His friends rode the merry-go-round—he didn't
- They bought toys—he didn't
- They're eating sweets—he can't
- He's excluded from every pleasure at the fair
For a four-year-old child, this would be devastating. Yet Hamid maintains his composure and doesn't spend his precious three paisas on temporary pleasure.
Section III: A Selfless Choice—The Heart of the Story
The Hardware Shop:
While his friends are busy with toys and sweets, Hamid notices something different: a hardware shop selling tools and household items.
The Revelation:
Suddenly, Hamid remembers: His grandmother doesn't have a pair of tongs.
Every day, when she cooks chappatis (flatbread) on the iron pan, she has to use her bare hands to flip them. The pan is scorching hot, and she burns her fingers every single time.
Hamid has watched this happen daily. He's seen her wince in pain. He's noticed her burnt, blistered fingers.
The Decision:
At this moment, Hamid makes his choice:
"A pair of tongs would be a truly useful gift."
Not for himself. For his grandmother.
The Negotiation:
The shopkeeper initially asks for six paisas—twice what Hamid has.
But Hamid bargains. He negotiates. He persists.
Finally, the shopkeeper agrees: three paisas.
Hamid gives up his entire fortune and receives the tongs.
The Significance:
Think about what this means:
- Hamid could have bought one toy (2 paisas) and one sweet (1 paisa)
- He could have enjoyed the fair like his friends
- He could have had something to show, something to play with
- Instead, he bought a practical tool—for someone else
This is extraordinary selflessness from a four-year-old child.
Carrying the Tongs:
Hamid carries the tongs on his shoulder "like a gun" to show his friends.
He's proud of his purchase—not ashamed.
His Friends Mock Him:
When Mohsin and Mahmood see what Hamid bought, they mock him:
- "You bought an iron toy?"
- "That's not even a toy!"
- "What a waste of money!"
- They laugh at him
Hamid Defends His Choice:
Hamid doesn't back down. He explains his reasoning:
"This is a tiger among toys"—the strongest, best toy of all.
"Your clay toys will break if you drop them. My tongs won't break. They'll last forever."
This shows Hamid's wisdom: He's thinking long-term, not short-term. He values durability and usefulness over momentary entertainment.
But the deeper truth (which he doesn't tell his friends because they wouldn't understand): The tongs aren't for play. They're a gift of love.
The Homecoming—The Story's Emotional Climax:
Granny Ameena's Initial Reaction:
When Hamid returns home with the tongs, Granny Ameena is initially upset and angry:
"Why did you waste your only money on iron tongs?"
"You should have eaten something!"
"You should have bought sweets!"
"You should have enjoyed the fair!"
She's concerned that Hamid sacrificed his own happiness.
Hamid's Explanation:
Then Hamid explains simply and directly:
"You burn your fingers on the iron pan, so I bought them."
The Transformation:
This single sentence changes everything.
Granny Ameena suddenly understands:
- Her grandson wasn't foolish
- He wasn't wasteful
- He was thinking of her
- At age four, he put her needs above his desires
- He watched her suffer and decided to help her
Her Emotional Response:
"She is deeply moved by his selflessness."
She begins to cry.
Not from sadness. From joy. From overwhelming love. From gratitude.
She realizes that for her, these simple iron tongs are "as precious as sacks of silver."
Why are they so valuable? Not because of their material worth (they cost only three paisas), but because of what they represent:
- Her grandson's love
- His awareness of her suffering
- His selflessness
- His wisdom beyond his years
- His compassion
The True Blessing:
In this moment, Granny Ameena realizes she's not poor at all.
She has the greatest wealth: a grandson who loves her so deeply that he gives up his own happiness for hers.
The Irony and Beauty:
The story's ending is beautifully ironic:
- The poorest boy made the richest choice
- The child with the least money bought the most valuable gift
- Those who spent on themselves gained temporary pleasure; Hamid gained eternal love
- The "foolish" purchase was actually the wisest
- What seemed like waste was actually treasure
Key Themes and Lessons:
1. Selflessness and Sacrifice:
The central theme is putting others' needs before your own desires. Hamid sacrifices his entire treasure (three paisas) and all the pleasures of the fair (rides, toys, sweets) to buy something practical for his grandmother.
This teaches: True love means being willing to give up what you want for the benefit of someone you care about.
2. Wisdom Beyond Years:
Hamid is only four years old, yet he shows wisdom that the older boys lack:
- He resists immediate gratification (toys, sweets)
- He thinks long-term (tongs won't break like toys)
- He thinks about others (Granny's burnt fingers)
- He understands real value (usefulness over entertainment)
This teaches: Wisdom isn't about age or education; it's about compassion and clear thinking.
3. Poverty vs. Wealth:
The story redefines what it means to be rich or poor:
- Mahmood and Mohsin have more money, but they spend it selfishly
- Hamid has almost nothing, but his love makes him rich
- The tongs cost three paisas but are worth "sacks of silver" because of the love they represent
This teaches: True wealth is measured in love, compassion, and relationships—not money or possessions.
4. The Spirit of Eid:
Eid is about giving, sharing, sacrifice, and thinking of others—not self-indulgence.
Hamid embodies the true spirit of Eid by:
- Sacrificing his own pleasure
- Giving a meaningful gift
- Thinking of someone else's needs
This teaches: Religious festivals should make us more compassionate and generous, not more selfish.
5. Practical Wisdom:
Hamid chooses something practical and lasting (tongs) over something fun but temporary (toys/sweets).
This teaches: Sometimes the wisest choice isn't the most exciting one. Thinking about long-term benefit beats short-term pleasure.
6. Empathy and Awareness:
Hamid noticed his grandmother burning her hands. He was aware of her suffering. He acted on that awareness.
This teaches: True compassion requires paying attention to others' pain and doing something about it.
7. The Value of Simple Acts:
Hamid didn't need to do something grand. A simple pair of tongs, bought with three paisas, changed everything.
This teaches: Small acts of love and thoughtfulness can be more meaningful than expensive gestures.
8. Childhood Innocence and Maturity:
The story shows a child who is both innocent (believing his parents will return) and mature (sacrificing for his grandmother).
This teaches: Children are capable of profound love and wisdom; we shouldn't underestimate them.
About the Author—Premchand:
Premchand (1880-1936) is considered the greatest Hindi/Urdu writer of all time. He wrote about:
- The lives of poor people
- Social injustice
- Human relationships
- The dignity of the poor
"Eidgah" is one of his most famous stories, beloved for its:
- Simple, clear language
- Emotional depth
- Moral beauty
- Celebration of human goodness
Why This Story Endures:
Decades after it was written, "Eidgah" remains powerful because:
- Universal theme: Selfless love transcends culture, religion, and time
- Emotional honesty: The story doesn't manipulate emotions; it earns them
- Respect for children: Hamid is poor and young, but he's the hero
- Moral clarity: Goodness is rewarded with love, not material wealth
- Simple beauty: The story is straightforward but profound
Modern Relevance:
Today's students face constant messages to:
- Buy more
- Want more
- Focus on themselves
- Seek pleasure
"Eidgah" offers a counter-narrative:
- Think of others
- Value relationships over possessions
- Choose wisdom over immediate gratification
- Find joy in giving, not just receiving
The story asks: "What would you do with three paisas at a fair full of temptations?"
Your answer reveals your character.
7. Reinforcement (5 minutes)
Additional Information:
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Eid and Islamic Culture: Eid-ul-Fitr marks the end of Ramadan, a month when Muslims fast from dawn to sunset. After a month of discipline and spiritual reflection, Eid is a joyous celebration with prayers, feasts, and gift-giving. The spirit is one of gratitude, generosity, and community.
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The Eidgah: This is an open space or mosque specifically for Eid prayers. The entire community gathers—men, women, children—dressed in new or best clothes. The prayer is followed by embracing and wishing each other "Eid Mubarak" (Blessed Eid).
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The Fair Culture: In Indian villages, festivals are accompanied by fairs (melas) with vendors selling toys, sweets, and handicrafts. For children, the fair is the highlight—a rare chance to buy treats and have fun. This makes Hamid's sacrifice even more significant: he gave up what children wait all year for.
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Three Paisas in Context: A paisa is 1/100th of a rupee. Three paisas was very little money even in Premchand's time. For comparison: toys cost two paisas, tongs cost three paisas (after bargaining from six). Hamid's entire wealth could buy one cheap toy or one sweet, or if he bargained well, one pair of tongs.
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Orphans in Traditional Society: In the early 20th century (when this was written), orphans had very difficult lives. Without parents, they often lived in poverty, dependent on relatives' charity. Hamid's situation—living with a poor grandmother—was precarious. This context makes his selflessness even more remarkable: he had every reason to be selfish, yet he wasn't.
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The Psychological Truth of Ameena's Lies: Ameena told Hamid his parents "went away" rather than died. This was to protect him from grief and give him hope. Psychologists recognize this as a common coping mechanism. The story doesn't judge whether this was right or wrong; it simply shows a grandmother's love trying to protect a child's innocence.
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Why Hamid's Choice Is So Remarkable: Most adults wouldn't sacrifice their only pleasure for others. A four-year-old child doing so is extraordinary. Premchand is showing that true compassion can exist even in the youngest, poorest, most vulnerable—in fact, sometimes especially in them.
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The Symbolism of the Tongs: Tongs are a simple household tool, but they symbolize:
- Protection: They prevent burns
- Care: They show Hamid notices and cares about his grandmother's pain
- Practicality: They're useful every day, not just once
- Durability: Unlike toys, they last
- Love: The motivation behind the purchase
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Premchand's Writing Style: Premchand wrote in simple, accessible language but dealt with profound themes. He believed literature should serve social purposes: raising awareness of injustice, celebrating human goodness, giving voice to the poor. "Eidgah" does all of this without being preachy.
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Connection to Real Life: Students might think, "I'd never face this choice—I have more than three paisas." But the principle applies to any situation with limited resources: Do you spend your limited time, money, or energy on yourself or on helping someone you love? That's the universal question.
8. Evaluation
a) Lower Order Thinking Question (Knowledge/Comprehension)
Question: "Describe what happened at the Eid fair. How much money did each boy have? What did Hamid's friends buy? What did Hamid buy? Why did Granny Ameena cry at the end?"
Expected Answer:
AT THE EID FAIR:
The Journey:
- The morning of Eid was beautiful with green trees and festive fields
- Everyone was excited to go to the Eidgah
- Roads were crowded with people in tongas (horse carriages) and motorcars
- After the Eid prayers, men embraced each other
- Children rushed to the toy and sweet vendors
HOW MUCH MONEY EACH BOY HAD:
- Mahmood: 12 paisas
- Mohsin: 15 paisas
- Noorey: (Amount not specified, but similar to other boys)
- Hamid: Only 3 paisas—much less than everyone else
WHAT HAMID'S FRIENDS BOUGHT:
The Merry-Go-Round:
- Hamid's friends enjoyed the merry-go-round (a rotating ride)
- Hamid refused to spend one paisa (one-third of his money) on just a short ride
Toys (2 paisas each):
- Mahmood bought a policeman (clay toy)
- Mohsin bought a water-carrier (clay toy)
- Noorey bought a lawyer (clay toy)
Sweets:
- After toys, the boys bought and ate sweets
- Gulab-jamuns (sweet balls in syrup)
- Halva (sweet confection)
Hamid was left out—he couldn't afford toys or sweets.
WHAT HAMID SAW BUT DIDN'T BUY:
- Hamid looked at the expensive clay toys "hungrily"—he wanted them
- He watched his friends enjoy sweets
- But he knew:
- The toys were expensive (2 paisas each)
- They would "smash if dropped" (they're fragile)
- Sweets would be eaten quickly
- He couldn't afford to waste his only 3 paisas
WHAT HAMID BOUGHT:
The Tongs:
- While walking around, Hamid noticed a hardware shop (selling tools and household items)
- He suddenly remembered: His grandmother doesn't have a pair of tongs
- Every day when she cooks chappatis (flatbread), she has to flip them on the hot iron pan
- She burns her fingers on the pan every single time
- Hamid had watched this happen daily
The Purchase:
- The shopkeeper first asked for 6 paisas for the tongs
- But Hamid had only 3 paisas
- Hamid bargained (negotiated for a lower price)
- The shopkeeper finally agreed to sell them for 3 paisas
- Hamid spent his entire fortune on the tongs
Carrying the Tongs:
- Hamid carried the tongs on his shoulder "like a gun"
- He was proud of his purchase
His Friends' Reaction:
- Mohsin and Mahmood mocked him (made fun of him)
- They said he bought an "iron toy" that wasn't even really a toy
- They laughed at his choice
Hamid's Defense:
- Hamid called the tongs a "tiger among toys"—the strongest, best toy
- He said: "Your clay toys will break if you drop them. My tongs won't break."
- (But the real reason—that they were a gift for his grandmother—he didn't explain to them because they wouldn't understand)
WHY GRANNY AMEENA CRIED AT THE END:
Her Initial Reaction:
When Hamid came home with the tongs, Granny Ameena was first upset and angry:
- "Why did you waste your only money on iron tongs?"
- "You should have eaten something!"
- "You should have bought sweets!"
- "You should have enjoyed the fair!"
She was worried that Hamid had sacrificed his own happiness and pleasure.
Hamid's Explanation:
Then Hamid said simply:
"You burn your fingers on the iron pan, so I bought them."
Why She Cried:
When Granny Ameena heard this explanation, everything changed. She understood:
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He thought of her, not himself:
- At the fair full of toys, sweets, and rides
- With only 3 paisas
- He could have bought himself one small pleasure
- Instead, he bought something for her
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He noticed her suffering:
- He had been watching her burn her fingers every day
- He cared about her pain
- He wanted to help her
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He was selfless:
- He gave up the merry-go-round
- He gave up toys
- He gave up sweets
- He gave up every pleasure at the fair
- All for her
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He was wise beyond his years:
- At only 4 years old
- He made a mature, compassionate choice
- He thought practically about what would help her
- He chose something that would last and be useful every day
The Emotional Impact:
Granny Ameena "was deeply moved by his selflessness"
"She began to cry" from:
- Joy and gratitude
- Overwhelming love for her grandson
- Realization of his sacrifice
- Understanding that despite their poverty, she was blessed
The Value of the Tongs:
She realized that for her, the tongs were "as precious as sacks of silver"
Not because they were expensive (they cost only 3 paisas)
But because they represented:
- Her grandson's love
- His selflessness
- His compassion
- His awareness of her suffering
- His wisdom
The Blessing:
In that moment, Granny Ameena understood she wasn't poor. She had the greatest wealth possible: a grandson who loved her so much that he put her needs before his own desires.
That's why she cried—from joy, love, and gratitude.
b) Middle Order Thinking Question (Application/Analysis)
Question: "Analyze Hamid's decision-making at the fair. He had three paisas and many choices: merry-go-round (1 paisa), toys (2 paisas), sweets (varying prices), or tongs (3 paisas). Why did he choose the tongs? Compare his thinking with his friends' thinking. Apply this to your own life: describe a time when you had to choose between something you wanted and something that would help someone else. What did you choose and why?"
Expected Answer:
ANALYSIS OF HAMID'S DECISION-MAKING:
THE SITUATION:
Hamid had only 3 paisas—his entire wealth.
At the fair, he faced multiple temptations:
OPTION 1: Merry-Go-Round (1 paisa)
- What it offered: A few minutes of fun on a rotating ride
- Cost: 1 paisa (one-third of his money)
- His friends' choice: They rode it
- Hamid's decision: NO
- His reasoning: "I have only three paisas. One paisa is a third of my entire wealth. For just a few minutes of fun? I can't afford such extravagance."
OPTION 2: Clay Toys (2 paisas each)
- What they offered: Colorful figures (policeman, water-carrier, lawyer)
- What Hamid felt: He looked at them "hungrily"—he desperately wanted them
- Cost: 2 paisas (two-thirds of his money)
- His friends' choice: Mahmood bought policeman, Mohsin bought water-carrier, Noorey bought lawyer
- Hamid's decision: NO
- His reasoning:
- These toys are made of clay—fragile
- "They would smash if dropped"
- They provide only temporary entertainment
- They're expensive for what they are
OPTION 3: Sweets (varying prices)
- What they offered: Delicious treats like gulab-jamuns and halva
- What Hamid experienced: He watched his friends eat; "Hamid was left out"
- Cost: Probably 1-2 paisas for a serving
- His friends' choice: They enjoyed sweets
- Hamid's decision: NO
- His reasoning: (implied)
- Sweets are eaten quickly and gone
- The pleasure is momentary
- His precious 3 paisas would buy only a brief taste
OPTION 4: Iron Tongs (originally 6 paisas, negotiated to 3)
- What they offered: A practical household tool
- What prompted the thought: Hamid noticed a hardware shop and suddenly remembered his grandmother burning her fingers daily on the hot iron pan
- Cost: 6 paisas (impossible!), but Hamid bargained down to 3 paisas
- His decision: YES
- His reasoning:
- Granny needs this desperately
- She burns her fingers every day
- Tongs will prevent her pain
- They won't break like toys
- They'll be useful forever
- Her need is greater than my desires
WHY DID HE CHOOSE THE TONGS?
Surface Reason (What He Told His Friends):
"My tongs are a 'tiger among toys'—the strongest, best toy. Your clay toys will break; my tongs won't."
This is a practical, logical reason that makes sense even at face value.
Deeper Reason (The Real Motivation):
Love and empathy. Hamid had been watching his grandmother suffer daily pain. He noticed her burnt, blistered fingers. He cared deeply about her wellbeing. When he saw the tongs, he immediately thought: "This would help her. This would stop her pain."
The Decision Process:
- Observation: Hamid had noticed Granny's daily struggle and pain
- Empathy: He felt her suffering; it bothered him
- Recognition: At the hardware shop, he saw the solution
- Evaluation: He considered his options—toys/sweets for himself vs. tongs for Granny
- Values: He valued her wellbeing more than his own pleasure
- Action: He bargained to get the price within his budget
- Sacrifice: He spent his entire fortune on her need, not his want
COMPARE HAMID'S THINKING WITH HIS FRIENDS' THINKING:
| HAMID'S THINKING | FRIENDS' THINKING |
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| Long-term focus | Short-term focus |
| "Tongs will last forever" | "Toys are fun right now" |
| "Won't break" | "Don't care if they break later" |
| Others-centered | Self-centered |
| "What does Granny need?" | "What do I want?" |
| Thinking of grandmother's pain | Thinking of own pleasure |
| Practical wisdom | Immediate gratification |
| "What's truly useful?" | "What's fun?" |
| Values utility | Values entertainment |
| Sacrificial love | Self-indulgence |
| Gives up all fair pleasures | Enjoys all fair pleasures |
| Denies self for another | Satisfies self |
| Mature perspective | Childish perspective |
| Thinks about consequences | Acts on impulse |
| Plans and bargains | Spends freely |
| Value-driven | Desire-driven |
| "Love is more important" | "Fun is most important" |
| Relationship over possession | Possession over relationship |
| Empathetic | Oblivious |
| Notices others' suffering | Doesn't notice or care |
| Acts on that awareness | Focuses only on own experience |
| Wise spending | Impulsive spending |
| Bargains, thinks carefully | Buys whatever catches eye |
| Every paisa counts | Money flows freely |
THE IRONY:
- Friends had more money but spent it less wisely
- Hamid had least money but made the wisest choice
- Friends bought for themselves and had nothing meaningful after
- Hamid bought for another and gained immeasurable love and respect
- Friends got temporary pleasure that ended when fair ended
- Hamid created lasting value that continued forever
THE LESSON:
Wisdom isn't about how much you have; it's about how you use what you have.
Maturity isn't about age; it's about putting love before selfishness.
True wealth isn't measured in coins; it's measured in compassion.
APPLICATION TO MY OWN LIFE:
Example Scenario 1: Birthday Money
The Situation: Last year on my birthday, my grandparents gave me ₹500. I had been wanting a new video game for months. But I also knew my mother needed a new pair of reading glasses—her old ones were broken, and she was getting headaches from straining to read.
The Choice:
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Option A (What I Wanted): Buy the video game
- Would give me hours of entertainment
- I'd been waiting for it
- My friends had it
- Temporary pleasure for me
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Option B (What Would Help Someone Else): Contribute toward Mother's glasses
- Would relieve her daily discomfort
- She needed them but kept postponing buying them
- Lasting benefit for her
- Sacrifice of my desire
What I Chose: I gave the ₹500 to my mother toward her glasses (they cost ₹800 total; she added the rest).
Why:
- I remembered Hamid's story
- I realized: the video game would entertain me for a few weeks, then I'd move on to wanting the next game
- But Mother's headaches were daily pain
- Just like Hamid noticed his grandmother's burnt fingers, I had been noticing Mother squinting and rubbing her temples
- I realized her relief would make me happier than the game would
The Result:
- Mother was deeply moved (like Granny Ameena)
- She cried a little and hugged me tight
- She got the glasses and her headaches stopped
- Every time I see her reading comfortably, I feel happy
- The joy of helping her lasted far longer than any game would have
- I eventually got the video game months later, and I enjoyed it, but honestly, the memory of helping Mother is more precious
What I Learned:
- Like Hamid, I discovered that giving up what you want for someone you love doesn't feel like loss—it feels like love
- The temporary sacrifice created permanent happiness
- Seeing someone you love relieved of pain is more satisfying than personal pleasure
Example Scenario 2: School Fair Pocket Money
The Situation: Our school had an annual fair. Father gave me ₹200 for entry, food, and games. My friend forgot his money at home and was very upset—he'd been looking forward to the fair for weeks.
The Choice:
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Option A (What I Wanted): Use all ₹200 on myself
- Try all the games
- Buy lots of snacks
- Enter the raffle
- Maximum personal fun
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Option B (What Would Help Someone Else): Share half with my friend
- We'd each have ₹100
- He could participate instead of just watching
- I'd have less money for myself
- Sacrifice some of my plans
What I Chose: I gave him ₹100. We decided to spend our money wisely together, sharing snacks and playing games as a team.
Why:
- I imagined how I'd feel in his position—watching everyone else have fun
- Like Hamid watching his friends eat sweets and play while he was "left out"
- I realized having ₹200 alone wouldn't be as fun as having ₹100 together
- Friendship mattered more than extra games
The Result:
- My friend was so grateful he almost cried
- We actually had more fun together than I would have had alone
- We strategized about which games were worth it (like Hamid's practical thinking)
- Other friends saw what I did and praised me
- My friend still remembers and mentions it years later
- Our friendship became stronger
What I Learned:
- Like Hamid's friends who had more money but learned nothing, I could have kept all ₹200 and gained nothing meaningful
- Sharing created connection, which is more valuable than things
- Sometimes less money + friendship is better than more money + loneliness
Example Scenario 3: Diwali Gift Choice
The Situation: During Diwali, my aunt gave me ₹300 to buy whatever I wanted. I was in a store with my grandmother, and I saw two things:
- A toy drone I'd been wanting (₹300)
- A warm shawl that would be perfect for Grandmother (₹250)
The Choice:
- Option A: Buy the drone for myself
- Option B: Buy the shawl for Grandmother and keep ₹50
What I Chose: I bought the shawl for Grandmother.
Why:
- Grandmother's old shawl was worn and thin
- Winter was coming, and she often felt cold
- The drone would be fun for a few weeks, then probably break or get boring
- The shawl would keep her warm all winter
- Like Hamid's tongs—practical, lasting, meeting a real need
The Result:
- Grandmother was shocked and emotional
- She insisted I return it and buy something for myself
- I said no, it was my gift to her (like Hamid insisting Granny accept the tongs)
- She wears it constantly and every time, she tells me how warm and loved she feels
- That feeling is worth more than any toy
What I Learned:
- Hamid's story taught me that the joy of giving to someone you love is deeper than the joy of getting for yourself
- Practical gifts that show "I notice your need" are more meaningful than expensive but random gifts
- Love is expressed through sacrifice, not through spending on yourself
THE HAMID PRINCIPLE IN MY LIFE:
From this story, I've learned to ask myself:
BEFORE SPENDING OR CHOOSING:
- "What do I want vs. what does someone I love need?"
- "Will this choice matter in a week? A month? A year?"
- "Am I thinking only of myself, or am I aware of others?"
- "Would I rather have temporary pleasure or lasting meaning?"
- "What would Hamid do?"
THE RESULT:
Sometimes I still choose things for myself—and that's okay. We don't have to be saints.
But when it matters, when someone I love truly needs something and I have the power to help, I try to choose like Hamid chose.
And every time I do, I discover what Hamid discovered: Giving brings more joy than receiving. Love is more valuable than possessions. And the happiness of seeing someone you love relieved of suffering is the greatest pleasure of all.
As the story teaches: You don't need much money to make a huge difference. You just need to notice someone's need and care enough to help—even if it means sacrificing what you want.
That's what Hamid did with three paisas.
That's what we can all do with whatever we have.
c) Higher Order Thinking Question (Synthesis/Evaluation)
Question: "Evaluate whether Hamid made the 'right' choice. Some might argue he should have enjoyed the fair—he's only four years old and has so little. He'll have other chances to help his grandmother. Create a 'Wisdom of Sacrifice' framework showing: (1) when sacrifice is wise vs. when it's unnecessary, (2) how to balance caring for others with caring for yourself, (3) the difference between healthy giving and harmful self-denial. Was Hamid's choice wisdom or was it too much sacrifice for a child?"
Expected Answer:
EVALUATION OF HAMID'S CHOICE:
ARGUMENTS THAT HAMID MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE:
1. He Addressed a Real, Ongoing Need:
- His grandmother burned her fingers every single day
- This wasn't a minor inconvenience; it was daily pain
- The tongs would prevent this suffering permanently
- The need was real, serious, and within his power to address
2. His Sacrifice Was Proportional:
- He gave up temporary pleasures (toys, sweets, rides)
- He gained permanent relief for his grandmother
- He traded minutes of fun for years of usefulness
- The "cost" to him (missing fair pleasures) was far less than the benefit to her (no more burns)
3. He Made an Informed, Thoughtful Choice:
- He wasn't pressured or guilted into it
- He observed the situation (Granny's burns)
- He evaluated options (toys vs. tongs)
- He chose deliberately
- This was wisdom, not impulse
4. The Joy of Giving Exceeded What He Gave Up:
- When Granny cried from gratitude and called the tongs "precious as sacks of silver"
- When she realized his selflessness
- Hamid gained something more valuable than fair pleasures: his grandmother's overwhelming love and his own sense of having done something meaningful
5. He Embodied the True Spirit of Eid:
- Eid is about sacrifice, generosity, and thinking of others
- After a month of fasting (sacrifice), Eid celebrates giving
- Hamid's choice was perfectly aligned with the festival's meaning
- He'll remember this Eid as the day he helped his grandmother—more meaningful than remembered toys
6. He Demonstrated Wisdom Beyond Material Thinking:
- His friends had fun but gained nothing lasting
- Hamid sacrificed fun but created lasting value
- He understood: relationships > possessions, usefulness > entertainment
- This wisdom will serve him throughout life
7. His Choice Strengthened Family Bonds:
- The tongs became a symbol of love
- Granny will treasure them forever
- Their relationship deepened
- In poverty, strong relationships are survival
ARGUMENTS THAT HAMID SACRIFICED TOO MUCH:
1. He's Only Four Years Old:
- Childhood is precious and brief
- Children deserve to enjoy age-appropriate pleasures
- He'll never be four again; he'll never experience this Eid fair as a child again
- Burdening children with adult-level sacrifice robs them of childhood
2. The Fair Was a Rare Opportunity:
- Eid comes once a year
- Fairs are special, temporary events
- He could have helped his grandmother another time
- Some experiences can't be reclaimed
3. He Had Already Sacrificed So Much:
- He's an orphan
- He lives in poverty
- He has no shoes, a tattered cap
- He has less than all his friends
- Hasn't he sacrificed enough? Doesn't he deserve one day of simple childhood joy?
4. His Grandmother Would Rather He Enjoyed Himself:
- Ameena's initial reaction: "Why did you waste your money?"
- She wanted him to eat, to enjoy, to be a child
- Loving guardians want children to have pleasures, not sacrifice for adults
- By sacrificing, he might have caused her more pain (guilt) than the burns did
5. The Tongs Could Have Been Obtained Another Way:
- Perhaps a neighbor could have lent or given tongs
- Perhaps Ameena could have asked for help
- Perhaps they could have found another solution
- Hamid didn't need to be the one to solve this problem
6. Learning to Receive Is Also Important:
- Always giving, never receiving can create unhealthy patterns
- Children need to learn it's okay to accept gifts and enjoy things
- Constant self-denial can lead to:
- Inability to accept love
- Feeling unworthy of pleasure
- Martyrdom complex
- Resentment later in life
7. He Might Have Felt Pressured by Circumstances:
- Did he really choose freely, or did poverty leave him no choice?
- Did guilt drive his decision more than love?
- Was he trying to "earn" his grandmother's love by being useful?
- Is this a healthy dynamic for a four-year-old?
BALANCED EVALUATION:
Hamid's choice was RIGHT given these specific circumstances:
The Context Matters:
- The need was serious: Daily burns, not a minor issue
- No other solution: They were too poor to buy tongs otherwise
- It was within his power: He had exactly enough money
- He chose freely: No one pressured him
- He felt joy, not resentment: His pride carrying the tongs shows he was happy with his choice
However, this shouldn't become a universal principle that children should always sacrifice:
When Sacrifice Would Be Wrong:
- If it were a pattern (always giving up everything)
- If it addressed a minor issue
- If adults were taking advantage of the child's generosity
- If the child felt obligated rather than moved by love
- If it left the child's own real needs unmet
Hamid's Wisdom: 8.5/10
Why high score:
- Perfect timing (right moment to act)
- Genuine need addressed
- Lasting solution created
- Appropriate sacrifice (pleasures, not necessities)
- Joy resulted, not resentment
Why not perfect 10:
- A four-year-old shouldn't need to solve adult problems
- Systemic poverty is the real issue
- He deserved to enjoy the fair too
- The burden of the grandmother's wellbeing shouldn't rest on a child
THE REAL VILLAIN: POVERTY
The story's tragedy isn't Hamid's choice—it's that he had to make it. In a just world:
- Granny would have tongs already
- Hamid could enjoy the fair
- Both needs could be met
But given the reality of poverty, Hamid made the wisest choice possible with the resources he had.
WISDOM OF SACRIFICE FRAMEWORK
PART 1: WHEN SACRIFICE IS WISE VS. UNNECESSARY
SACRIFICE IS WISE WHEN:
Situation A: Real Need + Your Unique Ability to Help
- Example from Story: Granny's daily burns + Hamid had exactly enough money for tongs
- Why Wise: Real suffering, within your power, no other solution readily available
- Test: Is this a genuine need (not just want)? Can I uniquely help? Is there no easier solution?
Situation B: Long-term Benefit >> Short-term Cost
- Example from Story: Forever usefulness of tongs >> one day of fair pleasures
- Why Wise: The exchange rate is favorable; you give up little, create much
- Test: In a year, will I regret this sacrifice or be glad I made it?
Situation C: Aligned with Your Values
- Example from Story: Hamid valued love and family; choice expressed that
- Why Wise: When sacrifice aligns with who you want to be, it strengthens character
- Test: Does this choice reflect my deepest values? Will I be proud I did this?
Situation D: Freely Chosen, Not Coerced
- Example from Story: Hamid chose; no one guilted or forced him
- Why Wise: Free choice = authentic love; coercion = resentment
- Test: Am I choosing this or being pressured? Would I do this even if no one knew?
SACRIFICE IS UNNECESSARY/UNWISE WHEN:
Situation A: Performative Suffering
- Example: Sacrificing to show how good you are, not because it helps
- Why Unwise: Sacrifice for reputation is manipulation, not love
- Test: Would I do this if no one ever found out?
Situation B: Martyr Complex
- Example: Always sacrificing, never accepting anything, making others feel guilty
- Why Unwise: Unhealthy dynamic; creates resentment; manipulative
- Test: Am I giving freely or keeping score? Do I resent others for not sacrificing as much?
Situation C: Sacrificing Necessities, Not Luxuries
- Example: Going hungry so someone else can have a second dessert
- Why Unwise: You must meet your own basic needs first or you can't help anyone
- Test: Am I sacrificing extras or essentials? Will this harm my wellbeing?
Situation D: Enabling Bad Behavior
- Example: Always covering for someone who's irresponsible
- Why Unwise: Your sacrifice prevents them from learning; enables dysfunction
- Test: Am I helping them or enabling them to avoid consequences?
Situation E: Ignoring Systemic Issues
- Example: Individual charity that lets unjust systems continue
- Why Unwise: Band-aid on structural problem; doesn't address root cause
- Test: Does my sacrifice address symptoms or causes? Should I be advocating for change instead?
PART 2: BALANCING CARING FOR OTHERS WITH CARING FOR YOURSELF
THE OXYGEN MASK PRINCIPLE:
On airplanes, instructions say: "Put on your own oxygen mask before helping others."
Why? If you pass out, you can't help anyone. You must be okay to help others be okay.
Applied to Life:
YOU MUST MEET YOUR OWN BASIC NEEDS:
- Physical: Food, rest, health, safety
- Emotional: Feeling valued, having joy, being loved
- Mental: Learning, growing, having purpose
- Social: Friendship, belonging, connection
Only after these are met can you sustainably help others.
THE BALANCE FRAMEWORK:
TIER 1: YOUR NECESSITIES (Non-Negotiable)
These you never sacrifice:
- Food, shelter, safety
- Basic healthcare
- Education
- Core emotional wellbeing
- Fundamental dignity
Example: If Hamid were starving, buying tongs instead of food would be wrong. But he was hungry (normal), not starving (emergency).
TIER 2: YOUR HEALTHY PLEASURES (Usually Preserve)
These you sometimes sacrifice for serious needs:
- Hobbies and entertainment
- Extras and luxuries
- Conveniences
- Temporary pleasures
Example: Hamid sacrificed fair pleasures (Tier 2) for Granny's real need (preventing daily pain). This was appropriate balance.
TIER 3: YOUR DESIRES (Often Negotiate)
These you frequently sacrifice for others' needs:
- Wants vs. needs
- Preferences
- First choice vs. acceptable choice
Example: "I want the window seat" vs. "My sibling gets car sick"—sacrifice the preference.
THE BALANCE QUESTION:
"Am I sacrificing from Tier 2-3 (appropriate) or Tier 1 (harmful)?"
Hamid's Example:
- He sacrificed Tier 2 (pleasures: toys, sweets, rides)
- He kept Tier 1 intact (he wasn't starving, wasn't in danger)
- This is healthy balance
Unhealthy Example:
- If Hamid were undernourished and the ₹3 was for desperately needed food, sacrificing it for tongs would be wrong
- That would sacrifice Tier 1 (necessity)
THE FREQUENCY CONSIDERATION:
Occasional Sacrifice = Healthy
- Hamid sacrificing once at the fair
- You giving up your turn sometimes
- Choosing others' needs periodically
Constant Sacrifice = Unhealthy
- Always giving up everything
- Never receiving or enjoying anything
- Pattern of self-denial
The Test: Is this a special choice or my default pattern?
PART 3: HEALTHY GIVING VS. HARMFUL SELF-DENIAL
HEALTHY GIVING (Like Hamid):
Characteristics:
- Freely chosen: You decide without pressure
- Specific occasion: Not constant pattern
- Proportional: Cost to you < benefit to them
- Joyful: You feel good about it (like Hamid carrying tongs proudly)
- Appropriate relationship: Helping family/friends, not strangers exploiting you
- Real need addressed: Granny's burns were real
- Sustainable: You're not depleting yourself
- No resentment: You don't regret it later
- Recognized: The recipient appreciates it (Granny's tears)
- Reciprocal overall: Not always you giving, them taking
Healthy Giving Example:
- You save your allowance to buy your mother a birthday gift she needs
- You tutor a friend struggling with math
- You share your lunch with someone who forgot theirs
- You give up your Saturday to help a neighbor
HARMFUL SELF-DENIAL:
Characteristics:
- Compulsive: You feel you "must" or you're bad
- Constant pattern: You never receive, only give
- Disproportional: You sacrifice too much for too little benefit
- Resentful: You feel bitter, unappreciated
- Exploitative relationship: Others take advantage
- False/manufactured need: Not real suffering
- Unsustainable: You're burning out
- Martyr complex: "Look how much I suffer for you"
- Unappreciated: Taken for granted
- One-sided: Always you sacrificing, never reciprocated
Harmful Self-Denial Example:
- You always do your sibling's chores while they play
- You give lunch money to a bully daily
- You never buy yourself anything, even when you have money and needs
- You cancel all your plans whenever anyone asks anything of you
THE DISTINCTION TABLE:
| HEALTHY GIVING | HARMFUL SELF-DENIAL |
|---|---|
| Occasional | Constant pattern |
| Chosen freely | Feel obligated |
| Brings joy | Brings resentment |
| Recognized | Taken for granted |
| Proportional exchange | Vastly disproportional |
| Real need | Manipulated need |
| Specific act | Pattern of martyrdom |
| Strengthens relationship | Creates unhealthy dynamic |
| Sustainable | Leads to burnout |
| Two-way over time | Always one direction |
| Feel proud | Feel used |
| Others appreciate | Others expect/demand |
WAS HAMID'S CHOICE WISDOM OR TOO MUCH SACRIFICE?
VERDICT: IT WAS WISDOM
Why:
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It was a specific choice, not a pattern: We're not told Hamid always sacrifices everything. This was one meaningful occasion.
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The need was real and serious: Granny's daily burns weren't trivial. This was genuine suffering.
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The sacrifice was proportional: He gave up pleasures (Tier 2), not necessities (Tier 1). He was hungry but not starving.
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It was freely chosen: No one guilted him. He saw the hardware shop, remembered Granny's burns, and decided.
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He felt joy, not resentment: Carrying the tongs "like a gun," defending his choice to friends—these show pride, not regret.
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The recipient deeply appreciated it: Granny's tears, her recognition of his selflessness, her calling them "precious as sacks of silver."
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It aligned with the occasion's meaning: Eid is about sacrifice and generosity. Hamid embodied the festival's spirit.
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It created lasting value: Not a meaningless gesture, but a permanent solution to daily suffering.
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The relationship was reciprocal: Granny raised him after his parents died. This was one way he could give back.
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He'll remember this positively: Years later, Hamid will think of this as the Eid he helped his grandmother, not the Eid he missed toys.
However, important caveats:
This was wisdom IN THIS SPECIFIC CASE because:
- The need was urgent
- He had the exact means to help
- No one else could/would help
- It was a one-time choice
- He retained his dignity and joy
This would NOT be wisdom if:
- It became a constant pattern (always sacrificing everything)
- He sacrificed necessities (went hungry to buy tongs)
- He was pressured into it
- It addressed a minor issue
- Others were taking advantage of him
- He felt resentful about it
THE LESSON FOR US:
We should praise Hamid's choice while also recognizing:
- Children shouldn't have to solve adult problems (the real tragedy is the poverty)
- But when they do choose to help, from love, it's beautiful
- The key is: choice, proportion, joy, meaning
Hamid made a wise, loving, mature choice. But we shouldn't expect or demand such choices from children. When they emerge freely from love, they're precious. When they're forced or expected, they're harmful.
As Hamid teaches us: True wisdom is knowing when to give and when to receive, when to sacrifice and when to enjoy, when to think of others and when to care for yourself.
The goal isn't constant sacrifice. It's appropriate, loving, joyful giving when it truly matters—balanced with self-care, self-respect, and the simple pleasures that make life worth living.
Hamid got the balance exactly right. That's why his story moves us so deeply.
9. Remedial Teaching
Strategies for Slow Learners:
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Simple Story Summary (4 Points):
- Point 1: Hamid is a poor 4-year-old orphan living with his grandmother
- Point 2: On Eid, he goes to the fair with only 3 paisas while friends have 12-15 paisas
- Point 3: Friends buy toys and sweets; Hamid buys iron tongs for his grandmother
- Point 4: Grandmother cries from joy because Hamid bought tongs to stop her burning her fingers
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The Main Idea: "True love means putting others' needs before your own wants."
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Character Chart:
CHARACTER WHAT THEY HAVE WHAT THEY BUY WHY
Mahmood 12 paisas Policeman toy For himself/fun
Mohsin 15 paisas Water-carrier toy For himself/fun
Noorey (coins) Lawyer toy For himself/fun
Hamid 3 paisas only Iron tongs For Grandmother
- Hamid's Choices at the Fair:
COULD BUY: DID HE BUY IT?
Merry-go-round (1 paisa) NO - too expensive for short fun
Toys (2 paisas) NO - they break easily
Sweets (1-2 paisas) NO - eaten quickly, gone
Tongs (3 paisas) YES - helpful forever
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Why Hamid Chose Tongs:
- Grandmother burns fingers every day cooking
- Tongs will stop the pain
- Tongs won't break like toys
- Tongs useful forever
- He loves his grandmother
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True or False:
- Hamid had more money than his friends. (FALSE - he had least: only 3 paisas)
- Hamid bought toys and sweets. (FALSE - he bought tongs)
- The tongs were for himself. (FALSE - for Grandmother)
- Grandmother was happy about the tongs. (TRUE - she cried from joy)
- Hamid was selfish. (FALSE - he was selfless/thinking of others)
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Simple Moral: "LOVE MEANS SACRIFICE. THINK OF OTHERS' NEEDS."
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Draw the Story:
- Draw: Hamid with only 3 coins
- Draw: Friends with toys and sweets
- Draw: Hamid buying tongs
- Draw: Grandmother crying with happiness
- Draw: Grandmother cooking safely with tongs
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What Hamid Taught Us:
- Think about what others need
- Sometimes help others instead of buying for yourself
- Real gifts solve problems
- Love is more important than toys
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Real-Life Connection: "If your mother or grandmother needs something important, and you have pocket money, what would you do?"
10. Writing Activity (8 minutes)
Choose ONE option:
Option 1: If I Were Hamid "Imagine you are at the fair with only ₹30. Your friends are buying toys and food. You notice something your parent/grandparent desperately needs that costs ₹30. What would you do? Describe your thoughts and decision. (120-150 words)"
Opening Example: "If I were at the fair with only ₹30, and I saw toys and games everywhere, I would feel..."
Option 2: Hamid's Diary "Write Hamid's diary entry on the night of Eid. Describe the fair, his choice to buy tongs, how his friends reacted, and how Granny responded. Include his feelings. (120-150 words)"
Opening Example: "Dear Diary, Today was Eid! I went to the fair with Mahmood and Mohsin. They had so much money..."
Option 3: Grandmother's Letter "Write a letter from Granny Ameena to Hamid (even though he's too young to read it fully). Express her feelings about his gift, what it means to her, and how proud she is. (120-150 words)"
Opening Example: "My dearest Hamid, I am writing this so that when you grow up, you'll know..."
Option 4: A Gift of Love "Write about a time when you gave up something you wanted to help someone in your family. Or write about a time you plan to do this. How did/would it feel? (120-150 words)"
Guidelines:
- Show understanding of selfless love theme
- Include emotions (joy, sacrifice, love, gratitude)
- Use at least 3 vocabulary words from the lesson
- Make it heartfelt and sincere
- Check spelling and grammar
Assessment Criteria:
- Understanding of selflessness theme (30%)
- Emotional depth and sincerity (25%)
- Vocabulary usage (15%)
- Writing quality (grammar, organization) (20%)
- Personal connection/empathy (10%)
11. Follow-up Activities
Homework:
Family Sacrifice Story: Ask your parents or grandparents: "Tell me about a time when you gave up something you wanted to help someone in the family." Write 120-150 words about their story and what it teaches you about love and sacrifice.
Additional Activities:
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About Eid: Research and write 120-150 words about:
- What is Eid-ul-Fitr?
- What is Ramadan?
- How do Muslims celebrate Eid?
- What values does Eid teach?
- Include pictures
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Premchand Research: Write 120-150 words about:
- Who was Premchand?
- What did he write about?
- Why is he famous?
- His other famous stories
- Include a picture
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Values Discussion: In small groups, discuss and present:
- When should you think of others before yourself?
- When is it okay to choose yourself?
- How do you balance both?
- (100-120 words written summary per group)
Creative Projects:
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Comic Strip: Create a 6-8 panel comic showing:
- Hamid at the fair with friends
- Friends buying toys/sweets
- Hamid seeing tongs
- Hamid buying tongs
- Friends mocking him
- Granny crying from joy
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Role Play: In groups of 5-6, act out:
- Narrator
- Hamid
- Mahmood
- Mohsin
- Grandmother Ameena
- (Optional: Shopkeeper, Noorey)
- Perform the key scenes
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Alternative Ending: Write 150-200 words showing what would have happened if:
- Hamid bought toys instead of tongs
- How would he feel?
- How would Granny react?
- What lesson would be different?
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Modern Version: Rewrite the story in modern setting:
- Modern festival (school fair, mall trip)
- Modern currency (rupees)
- Modern toys (video games, gadgets)
- Keep the same moral
- 200-250 words
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"Acts of Love" Class Project:
- Each student commits to one act of sacrificial love this week
- Help a family member with something they need
- Document it (write or draw)
- Share with class
- Discuss how it felt
Assessment Criteria
Overall Lesson:
- Story comprehension (characters, events, setting) (20%)
- Understanding of selflessness theme (30%)
- Vocabulary acquisition (15%)
- Empathy and emotional understanding (20%)
- Application to real-life choices (15%)
Cross-Curricular Connections
- Values Education: Selflessness, sacrifice, family love, compassion, empathy
- Religious Studies: Eid, Ramadan, Islamic festivals, universal values across religions
- Life Skills: Decision-making with limited resources, prioritizing needs vs. wants
- Economics: Resource allocation, budgeting, value vs. price
- Social Studies: Indian village life, fairs/melas, poverty, family structures
- Psychology: Child development, empathy, altruism, emotional intelligence
- History: Early 20th century India, Premchand's era
- Ethics: When to sacrifice, balancing self and others
Extension for Advanced Learners
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Literary Analysis (400-500 words):
- Analyze Premchand's use of irony (poorest child makes wisest choice)
- Examine the symbolism of tongs (protection, care, practicality)
- Discuss the social commentary on poverty
- Compare with other stories about sacrifice
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Philosophical Essay: Write 300-400 words on:
- The ethics of self-sacrifice
- When duty to others overrides personal pleasure
- The relationship between love and sacrifice
- Whether children should bear such burdens
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Comparative Study: Compare "Eidgah" with another sacrifice story:
- "The Gift of the Magi" by O. Henry
- Any cultural story about selfless love
- Write 300-400 words comparing themes, characters, lessons
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Research Project: Investigate Premchand's life and social reform writings (300-400 words):
- His views on poverty
- His social activism
- His literary philosophy
- Include sources
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Creative Writing: Write your own story (500-600 words) about:
- A child making a selfless choice
- Limited resources, meaningful impact
- Teach a moral without being preachy
- Show character through actions, not telling
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